Online love

[heidi!]

Amen Sista! [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img] ...that icon is lame

[rotten]

I didnt delete my posts cus i'm going back on anything i said, about T or leo or whatever. None of this really was about either one of you when i put it up there, it was literally about the mush on the boards and sometimes in the room.

but i mostly edited my posts (mel has it so i cant delete) because i am working things out with someone on here that really means a lot to me. and everything done on this board was counterproductive to that.

[T-rex]

*LMAO .. ok so heres rotten.. criticizing everyone else for being monogomous with someone r/t that isnt working out and coming on here and meeting someone to be happy.. and whats this? yet another tote on the "rotten is a hypocrite" toteboard ... rotten you are so fucking stupid .. and its even funnier because you think your smart *L .. you run your mouth about the things other people choose to do with thier life and then you turn around and do the same fucking thing.. *L* ... god damn you could at least fish for SOME credibility on occasion... *L*.. too funny


and heidi.. why close the thread? all thats gonna do is cause this fight to go into another thread... besides u know if rotten isnt done saying what he has to say, he will stop at nothing to get his point across.. so why bother really.. it always seems to end up at this point eventially *shrugs*

[rotten]

btw T dont think you are in anyway right in saying im jealous of you. I criticize people(right or wrong) because i think what they are doing is extremely stupid and i like to point it out.

You know nothing about my r/t relationship because she is completely seperate from anything on here.

Leo you failed to mention in all your posts how much i reminded YOU that r/t came first. How many times did i tell you you should maybe log off so he doesnt feel neglected. and dont blame me for him finding out, i never told you to write things down on an actual slip of paper and leave it on a desk. What was that letter about? hmmm something to do with me seeing doug's side..didnt he agree with me?

anywho....neversaid love doesnt happen here...its a brand of love its all about degrees. But holyshit i've been online for a while myself and really only one person has really stood out to me, where'd i'd say i have love for her. I just do not get people who fall in love once twice then three or four times. I dont think that's possible.

anyhow T im glad you're happy, you'd be happy with things i could never be happy about. But its all about expectations etc...i dont think you're a bad guy at all... but i do think the women that run to you do so because they are unhappyily married. Either way we used to be friends and even then i told you to get your shit together..but its not my place anymore. Cus i dont really care.

on a side note i've always found it weird that people base their happiness on an online love..or even r/t love. there's more to life than that although maybe that's the on where you feel the most emotional. I mean how about personal accomplishment? If you base whether you're happy on if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend there is really something wrong with your life.

this is the gospel according to st james.

[T-rex]

oh but i do rotten.. just the fact that you have had online relationships and flings means that something isnt right with your relationship.. cuz if it was a good relationship you wouldnt need to come on here to cum or to share those kinds of feelings with because you would be getting it from jenn... and i dont base my happiness on whether i am single or not... i base it on how i feel about myself and if i am satisfied with whats happening in my life... and based on where i was oh lets say.. 5 years ago... compared with now.. i am very satisfied.. i am happier now than i ever was then or at any time... maybe its not something anyone else could appreciate... but ive been through a hell of a lot .. and somewhere along the line every ounce of self confidence and any desire to succeed or want to even try was sucked out of me.. and ive been trying for years to find it again.. and im just starting to find it again... with the help of my friends .. but mostly genie.. and considering all this and how i used to feel about myself and carry myself then to what it is now.. i am very happy.. i have a roof over my head and food to eat.. whether that roof is something i pay to live under doesnt matter to me because i am living somewhere where i will never have to worry about living on the streets and i am welcomed here ... its not where i want to end up for the rest of my life but right now i am happy with that... i have friends that i have fun with and care about me.. and vise versa.. what once was feelings of hate and pity for myself.. is slowly turning into courage and faith in who i am and what im capable of doing with my life.. i feel good about myself.. and on top of all that ive been blessed with the most wonderful woman ive ever met in my life as my own... someone that understands me and loves me for who i am .. and vise versa... 3 years in the making... but most important of all.. im happy.. and unlike you, i dont need to get online and criticize everyone else ... who was once your freinds but for some unknown reason you decided to turn on every one of them... for no reason... just to feel better about yourself and your life... which in itself says your miserable... and u wont tollerate anyone being anything less than miserable with you... i wish i could say that you was a good person and maybe at some point i thought that... but not anymore.. your a fucking prick... the shit you've done to your friends just for kicks.. its no wonder your miserable and you probably deserve it.. no telling how you treat your r/t friends and jenn... u dont seem to ever do what makes you happy... instead you conjure up some bullshit logic and try to convince everyone else that its the best for them and that they should live the way you think they should.. and if they dont agree with you.. then you do everything in your power to make them feel like shit about it.. in the hopes that they will agree with you and then you can feel smart about something... stop fucking worrying about what everyone else is doing and do what you want and let everyone else do what they want.. jesus christ.. live your own fucking life.. worry about your own problems.. you certainly have enough of them.. accept it or just shut the fuck up

[T-rex]

oh and wait a minute.. ur saying women come to me because they are unhappily married? as if any woman in the world that was unhappy in a marriage would only consider coming to me and no one else? i mean ive had many girlfriends.. and only 3 of them have been married... 2 of them was willing to have be with me and get out of thier fucked up marriage.. leo made it clear that she wasnt leaving her hubby for me or anyone... but whats that have to do with anything? thats purely circumstancial... its not like i have ever put being married at the top or anywhere on a list of requirements to be met before i decided to be serious with them.. its just how it happened... i never asked them to leave thier hubby for me.. they already wanted to leave them and move on with thier life and be happy and it just so happened to be with me at the time.. if they was happily married... first off i wouldnt intrude into it or even get involved with them if that was the case.. and second they wouldnt be on here trying to find someone that made them happy .. cuz if they was happily married they wouldnt be on the net looking for happiness.. same as your unhappy in your relationship and have no control over your life... so u get on here and try to control everyone elses so u have some control in your life... and getting together and serious with women you meet on here that make you happy.. so i really dont know what your whining to everyone else about.. because you do the same shit that your criticising everyone else for

[macy^]

I just had a funny thought...

WHAT IF we all ended up in the same Nursing Home? (cause we all know you guys will all end up in Florida driving slow*ducks*) Would we sit around the nurses desk laughing about some of this shit that we argued about here?
OR
WHAT IF...there was only ONE computer that we all had to share....and we raced our chairs and walkers in the morning to be the first to post something on mels board...*chuckles*...
'course....I'd be on the outside of the wheel chair circle..'cause...Noone wants to GIVE ME ANY!! Been tryin' for months to get lucky damnit!!!
I'm gonna go ahead and warn you chicks.....when we do get to the nursing home...I'm given all the guys some...WITH AND WITHOUT my dentures!!!!

[*Leo the Lioness*]

rotten: "Leo you failed to mention in all your posts how much i reminded YOU that r/t came first. How many times did i tell you you should maybe log off so he doesnt feel neglected. and dont blame me for him finding out, i never told you to write things down on an actual slip of paper and leave it on a desk. What was that letter about? hmmm something to do with me seeing doug's side..didnt he agree with me?"


WRONG!

try again

i never said it was your fault i got busted, but i'll always maintain that you had at least 50% of the responsibility, since it took two to carry on for 9 months, and you were well aware of my situation when you entered into that relationship with me in the first place......you did it out of your own free will, did you or did you not?......plus, i brought that up to illustrate my point about you not being willing to "pay my bills", either, like you constantly love to throw in other people's faces......fucking typical chauvanist, trying to lay the blame at the woman's feet instead of shouldering his part in it....but you know what, that isn't shocking to me about you, either, it's par for the course and frankly, i'm pretty bored with having to say the same things over n over again simply because you keep trying to weasel out of the argument......or change the focus to something else when you're called out or defeated.....BORRRRIIIINNNNNGGG!!!

the fact remains that you have no room to speak about online relationships and what other people do.....that was my point from the beginning, and it still is......you have an iron setta balls starting shit with people for something you yourself have done, (and have done worse in some cases), so feel free to just sit there and shut your yap, k?

as for why you deleted your posts like the pussy that you are, you said it's because you were trying to work something out between you and "<u>someone who means a lot to you</u>"......online? *LMFAO*!!!!!!! *coughbullshitcough*

once again:

<font size=7>HYPOCRITE</font>


"only one person has really stood out to me, where'd i'd say i have love for her"

<font size=7>LIAR!</font>

only one person huh? either you were lying then, or you're lying now.....either way you're a LYING SACKA SHIT!....was it last week or the week before when you told me you "still love me"?....yeah, let's trust that Gospel *fake jerking off motion*

cripes, i think if you were ever honest with yourself or someone else, the shock alone would throw me into a deep coma

you are a screwed up, nasty person and your personality is for da birds.....like i said to you after the last time you went off on me for nothing (as if i'd fucking take that from you *G), if this is how you treat women online, where it's pretty much low stress compared to a r/l relationship, then i feel very sorry for Jenn, cuz i'd bet my left tit you do it to her, too.......and if i were her and you verbally and emotionally abused me that way????.........i'd do pretty much what i've been doing since i got online; i'd fucking cheat on your ass left and fucking right, cuz you'd deserve it, only, i doubt i'd have that "never cheat in r/l" policy for you

actually, by the looks of you, i probably wouldn't have to; i'd just kick your ass in the first time "pathetic bitch" ever left your mouth *G

[demon chloe]

dunno

really

I tell the people I love.....real time..or here..that I love them...and some I do. DOn't get me wrong. No romantic love going on...anywhere. But I tell them. It's who I am. Im pretty open about that stuff. Others aren't. It's pretty much a personal choice...


Yeah, id kick some macy ass in my wheelchair......*L


damnit LeO..i wanted the 69th post...GRRRRRR [img]redface.gif[/img]

[T-rex]

*L leo ... if honesty were introduced into rottens life, the world would self destruct within seconds... good thing "honesty" and "rotten" are oxymorons *G